Saturday, October 8, 2016

family comes first

Omar Khawaldeh
10/8/2016
L&C 1 - Mrs. Hamzah

family comes first

After interviewing a bus driver who works in king's academy and asking him some question about his personal life and his life in kings I found that people has different situations in this society and there's people work hard to offer this life to me.



Abu Mohammad is simple person who lives in Amman and he's 46 years old he studied in Kuwait for 3 years and he thinks that education in Kuwait is better than Jordan. he got married in 1988 and now he has 3 boys and a girl. his aim in this whole life is to make his family happy and offer everything they need. when I asked him about the best moment in your life first he said "the family them the family then the family" after that he said that the most important moment in his simple life was when his last child Abdallah was born because this child returned him to life after some problems happened to him.



He knew about the job in kings by his parents neighbors he wasn't forced to work there, but the reason is because he was unemployed for more than 9 months and he thinks that's working here is hard and with all this pressure in this job he says that's it's fun. "we look at work as something bad, but if we want to have fun in it defiantly we can" he says. kings changed a lot of things in his life he started looking at life from more than one side which gave him more experience. in addition, this chance effect on his personality because of the people he deals with every day in this job. and something I like in his self that he always wants to learn new things and get use from his job for example, when a Korean person get in his bus he starts learning Korea language and things like this he makes boring things something fun and that's something we all should learn. another special ability (like what I like to name) how nothing can effect on him to make him feel bad. he always shares the positive energy to his passengers. and as he says that his relationship with his headmaster is very good because he do his work on time and he never be late so his headmaster became a friend with him within the respect he shows to him because he is his headmaster. one of the special answers I like is when I asked him about other drivers and mates his said "you attract people by being kind and thank god I think I'm a good person so I have great relationship with other" he's a self confident-person and he proud of that.



one of the thing I like in this driver is that he cares about us about his passengers. he deal with this as they are his sons he asks us if we are okay if we feel cold if we need something. So people likes how he is being kind.


He is in love with his bus he told me how he worked hard to make this bus better and prettier and stronger and his reason for doing all of this because "I spend half my day in it half my life in and you ask me why" he said.



My final question to him was "are you happy in you life ????". and he's answer was yes and he explained his happiness in 2 reasons, first one was "Satisfaction can change your feeling" and he add "my family being in a good health". 


for real this person changes somethings in me and gave me some of his experience.